
(Sad Songs & Waltzes is a recurring feature on Muzzle of Bees, where artists share their favorite sad songs. Previous contributors include Megafaun, Delta Spirit, Damien Jurado, Sharon Van Etten, Over The Rhine, Conrad Plymouth, Frontier Ruckus, Strand of Oaks, and Roadside Graves.)
This feature has been one of my favorite accomplishments while running this site. The selections shared have opened musical doors previously closed to me. For that I’m very appreciative. I’m very excited to share with you Phil Cook’s contributions to this ongoing feature. Many of you are familiar with Megafaun, the band Phil shares with his brother Brad and friend Joe Westerlund. Recently, Phil Cook released a beautiful album called Hungry Mother Blues
, which has rightfully drawn praise from Pitchfork and Aquarium Drunkard. It’s a beautiful listen that ends almost as soon as it begins and you find yourself playing it again and again. I could go on at length, but instead let’s get to Phil’s favorite sad songs…
Sad Songs & Waltzes by Phil Cook:
I struggle with writing lyrics. I start to think of something and all of a sudden it becomes everything. I love to sing, especially in harmony, but writing my own words is tough. I’ve always found sanctuary in playing instruments. Right near the end of college, I took my tax return and I spontaneously bought a banjo. I had been studying the piano through lessons, gigs, combos, and rock bands since I was old enough to sit up straight. I don’t regret majoring in music at all, but I have struggled with the institutionalization it left in me. My favorite musicians were English and Philosophy majors back then. I admired their instincts, for I had become somewhat numb to my own.
One day I was in a music shop in River Falls, WI and I randomly pulled a banjo off the wall, never having played one, and within 45 minutes it was bought and paid for and sitting happily in my back seat. It felt bold and new in my hands. Uncharted. Instinctual, even! I found my brother Brad. He was sitting in his room listening to music, as always, and as I showed my new prize off to him I became distracted by the stereo. “Good lord, what is this?” He had a promo of the new record from a group called The Tin Hat Trio from San Francisco. The Rodeo Eroded
. Formed in A trio of New York-bred musicians who straddled the ties between many of the city’s underground scenes for years. Combining Carla Kihlsted’s violin with Rob Burger’s odd assortment of accordions, prepared pianos, Chamberlins, and other keyboards, the trio was rounded out by composer Mark Orton. Mark brought the earth into their chamber, using the dobro, the banjo, and the guitar. They seemingly ignored any genres or trends and played with a lot of integrity. I needed to follow instinct at this point in my life and he had it in spades. Always tasteful and patient, his voice was consistent no matter which instrument he used. I dove in hard. I played banjo everyday, eventually settling into a clawhammer style. The simplicity of melody rather than chords. I went back to basics but I had a lot more to say.
In the late summer of 2004, The Tin Hat Trio released their next record titled Book of Silk
. The record begins with “The Longest Night,” which remains the most haunting melody I’ve heard. I came to learn that just before the record was made, Mark Orton’s wife Lauren had drowned in a tragic rafting accident. They had been married just a year or two. My heart breaks every time I hear this song. I think about Mark. I think about the title. I’m humbled by the amount of empathy in Rob and Carla’s accompaniment. Without words, this is the saddest song I’ve experienced.
Tin Hat Trio – “The Longest Night” (Listen)
“The Longest Night” is bookended by another waltz at the end of the record named “Lauren’s Lullaby.” Mark plays with such beautiful strength on this song. He lets us know that despite his sadness he still has hope. Breathtaking. That solo. I’ve listened to this song hundreds of times and teared up every time.
Tin Hat Trio – “Lauren’s Lullaby” (Listen)
These songs pull me into a realm where I feel life’s inevitable dark endings, but rest in the community and friendship I’ve found in music. I’m so grateful to be able to do this and share it with others. I know I’ll get better at writing lyrics as time goes on. It’s also important to remember that words are just words. If you’ve got something to say, you’ll find a way to say it.
Dedicated to Mark Orton
MP3: Phil Cook & His Feat – “Ballad of a Hungry Mother”
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Buy: Phil Cook & His Feet – Hungry Mother Blues
[Photo by Graham Tolbert]